As I delve deeper into my spiritual journey and pray for guidance, my perspective on feminism h a s undergone a transformation. I am proud to be a woman, not just because of the battles we’ve fought and the achievements we’ve made, but because of the divine purpose we were created for. Before the fall of man, God fashioned man and woman to complement each other. We were designed to be helpers of each other, to support and uplift one another in the journey of life. Our physical stature may differ, but we are both equally valued and cherished in the eyes of our Creator. God’s handiwork is a masterpiece, and we, as women, are the pinnacle of his creation. We are delicate and beautiful, like a rare flower blooming in a garden. Our tenderness and grace are a testament to his love and attention to detail. As I ponder on these thoughts, I am reminded of a quote from Maya Angelou, “I’m a woman, phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, that’s me.” And indeed, we are phenomenal, strong and resilient in the face of adversity. So let us not forget our divine purpose and value as women. Let us embrace our femininity and the beauty that comes with it. We are uniquely and wonderfully made by the Creator himself. The New Covenant we share with Christ is a wondrous gift, gracing us with forgiveness and transforming us into beloved children of God. Through this sacred bond, we are no longer bound by the curse of the Fall, but instead, we bask in the glory of His love and grace. As His children, we are called to fulfill our divine roles, given to us by God Himself. Whether male or female, we have been entrusted each with a sacred mission: to multiply and nourish this world, spreading love and kindness wherever we go. And I, for one, will take on this task with a fierce and fearless heart. But beyond our gender or any assigned roles, we must remember that we are each unique individuals, each with our own special purpose in this world. And as God’s greatest creation, nothing less than excellence will do for us. As for the idea of being taken care of and spoiled by a man, I believe that a healthy partnership built on mutual respect and love is a wonderful thing. But let us never forget our own worth and strength as women. We must never allow ourselves to be taken for granted, nor should we settle for anything less than true love and commitment. For we are not merely flesh and bone, but also creatures of the spirit, called to live a life of purpose and fulfillment. And with God’s grace and guidance, we can indeed achieve great things, both individually and together. So let us embrace our divine calling and step forward with confidence and courage, for we are God’s final and greatest creation, and nothing less than excellence will do. In the divine plan of creation, God had a specific purpose in mind for each one of us. It’s easy to wonder about what could have been if things were different, but the truth is that we are all unique, perfectly crafted, and imbued with our own special qualities.

 Oshoba Feyisayo